to Feb 25

Meet Around a Dinner Table (ongoing)

Curated Dinner Parties
Hosted by Alex Sommer + Dine Offline

Research shows that it takes an average of six-hours of online "dating" to meet one human in-person. Who has time for that?! 

Dine Offline brings connecting back to the real world! They host handpicked dinner parties at restaurants, introducing you to new friends over a gourmet meal. 

With four to eight attendees per dinner, they aim to ensure all guests of the opposite sex meet your dating desires (age, religion, height, ethnicity, etc.). Plus, your host Alex will provide conversation topics, and ensure you have one-on-one time with each match. 

Apply and say you learned about it through Underground Unattached for special attention. 

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7:00 PM19:00

Gaze Date

This Special Moment Together
Hosted by ZeShan & Simone

Gaze is a non-traditional meetup for singles that combines the intimacy of eye gazing and the spontaneity of speed dating. We curate intimate and open-minded groups of people looking to meet their match IRL. Come be seen for who you are.

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8:00 PM20:00

The Great Love Debate

Join the Conversation!
Hosted by Brian Howie + The Great Love Debate

The Great Love Debate is a nationally-touring interactive theater experience for those who love to dish about dating! 

Hosted by Brian Howie, America's #1 Dating Enthusiast & Author, How to Find Love in 60 Seconds. And featuring an on-stage lineup of NYC's most prominent voices, specialists, & personalities, including James Altucher, Gregory Frank, Talia Litman, Erin Davis and Heather Robinson!

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7:00 PM19:00

The Love Dojo

  • 21 Judge Street Brooklyn, NY, 11211 United States (map)
  • Google Calendar ICS
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How's your love life?
Hosted by Anthony David Adams, Emily Sussell and Zoe Nightingale

Bring us your biggest questions and conflicts around dating, love, and relationship. We'll gather in a candlelit living room in Williamsburg to discuss and support one another as a community dedicated to mastering the art and skill of conscious love.

Limited space available. Designed for singles and couples. Use promo code: UNDERGROUND.

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to Oct 21

Get Fancy at a Charity Gala Benefiting Children Who Need Us

Join My Table
Hosted by Christina Weber

My hope is to be a mother someday. For now, I take the children of The Orphaned Starfish Foundation (OSF) as my own.

Join my table at the 13th Annual Gala where Dreams Come True! I'm a part of the host committee. I'll introduce you to so many good people throughout the evening. We'll check out the auction, eat, dance and mingle. Party time!

My table fits ten (10) people. Purchase one ticket for yourself. Or grab two and I'll matchmake you with a dream date. Tickets are $500. This is all for the kids!

OSF creates change in the lives of over 10,500 orphans, victims of abuse and poverty worldwide by helping them develop computer and life skills needed to succeed. CNN recently covered their story here

The founder and his wife, Andrew and Dilia Stien, are best friends. They live in a modest one-bedroom apt in Astoria and give nearly everything they have to the children. This is the type of romantic partnership I hope to create. And I can't wait to share them with you!

Message me after you get tickets and we'll begin to plan -!

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7:00 PM19:00

Meet Around a Dinner Table!

Curated Dinner Party
Hosted by Alex Sommer + Dine Offline

We once read that it takes an average of six-hours of online "dating" to meet one person in-person. That's crazy!

Who has time for that?!

Dine Offline brings connecting back to the real world! We host handpicked dinner parties at restaurants, introducing you to new friends over a gourmet meal.

With four to eight attendees per dinner, we ensure all guests of the opposite sex
meet your dating desires (age, religion, height, ethnicity, etc.). Plus, your host
Alex will provide conversation topics, and ensure you have one-on-one time with
each match.

Throw in a romantic, three-course meal on top of that, and youโ€™re in for a fun
evening to remember!

* Experience will be curated based first applied. If October 19th isn't a match, you'll be added to Dine Offline's invitation list and receive future invites from us. We got you!

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to Oct 15

The Camera Ready Experience

Make Your Impact
Hosted by Quddus PhillippeCarmina Becerra + Camera Ready

Are you an entrepreneur or an artist changing the world? Are you ready to amplify your impact?

The world needs you, like yesterday!

As they say, "only the ones who are crazy enough to think they can change the world actually do." And as we say, "only the ones who are committed enough to work on themselves actually do."

Now that there's more competition for eye balls. The question is... What are you doing to standout and raise the bar? 

After 32 years of combined experience in television and interviewing the biggest stars in the world, we've seen that everyone struggles with the same stuff when it's time to hit the record button. 

Is your inner critic loud when you're about to go on? Is your perfectionism dimming your passion? Would practice and feedback make a difference?

That's where we come in.

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6:30 PM18:30

Fun Storytelling Night hosted by Fatema Hamdani (Limited to 8 Men + 8 Women)

  • Midtown West New York, NY United States (map)
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Hello, new friends. I'm Fatema Hamdani,  an entrepreneur living in NYC. I'm planning this experience from South Africa!

Although I love my career, I'm also open to the idea of creating a meaningful relationship. Online dating isn't of interest, so with the help of Underground Unattached and Christina Weber, I'm curating a party to host!

The event is my treat. And I plan to be in good company - surrounded by friends and friends of friends. 

I imagine guests to be fun, well-appearing humans who enjoy life, meeting new people and sharing stories. You'll range in age from late-twenties to early-forties.

For those who join, come with a story in mind to share. The theme is fun! We'll each have 3-mins. 

For example, I may share about the time one of my normal wreck dives turned out to be the most exciting dive with 15-20 bull sharks!!

The venue is beautiful and private to us shared by a friend. I'll provide delicious small bites to eat. 

My ask is that guests please BYOB. One rule, no red wine. 

If you're interested in joining, please take a few moments to submit answers below. It helps us to get to know you and curate the space.  

While we wish everyone could attend, we're limited in space.

If you seem like a match based upon shared interests with myself and others, I'll send you an email with the location to confirm. 

If you don't hear from us, please know Christina is working on other opportunities to gather. 

Excited by the idea of meeting you! <3 

Name *
Phone *
Age *
Facebook, Linkedin, and/or Instagram
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8:00 PM20:00

The Great Love Debate Returns to NYC!

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Join The Great Love Debate!

"If you truly want to stop being single, you should start by seeing this show!" - BroadwayWorld

Guys seated on the left, girls seated on the right, at this wild, feisty, hilarious, interactive theatrical experience where the audience, hosts, and celebrity guests try to answer the question, "Why is everyone still single?โ€

This show will sell out, all tickets must be purchased in advance - GET THEM HERE! 

Hosted by Brian Howie"America's #1 Dating Enthusiast" - Time Magazine

And featuring an on-stage lineup of NYC's most dynamic specialists & personalities!


Who may you meet?

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1:00 PM13:00

The LOVE Parade NYC

The LOVE Parade NYC

The Love Parade NYC combines of random acts of kindness with activism. We gather to connect & spread love through gift giving on the streets.

NOW is the only time we have to make the decision that is going to improve our lives and change our world.

We have more technology + knowledge than ever before to solve the problems of Earth. Studies prove that people donโ€™t change their minds because the facts and resources are there - People change their mind when they have a change of heart. We are creating an ACT OF BEAUTY on the streets to WAKE PEOPLE UP to the evolution through compassion, peace, and unity!

Joyful play + compassion + connection + spreading love in the form of gifts

Event Details:
 Union Square, NYC from 1-3pm for meditation and inspiration from guest speakers, including our founder, Christina Weber
March: Walking west on 14th Street to Highline Park. We give flowers as gifts and share smiles to create a small change of heart that will have a ripple effect into our cherished community.
Party: Take the "L"OVE Train to House of Yes (8th Ave to the Jefferson Stop) Details coming soon.
Workshops: Learn more about Choose Love Now workshops that combine education with mindfulness to empower direct action. Summer series starting in May.

Join the Facebook community:

What to Bring:
- Flowers for gift-giving.
- Bring your pets!
- Bring your children!

What to Wear:
Colorful clothing!
Dress in your team color!

This is a sustainable event. No balloons. No confetti. Clean up after your neighbors.

Learn more about Love Parade NYC:

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to Apr 30

The Crush Club

This is about finding connection ๐ŸŒŸ, not matches.

This is an online dating experiment where we do the swiping for you. The catch? Sign-up, fill out our survey, and answer honestly. From there, weโ€™ll help you find people around the city that youโ€™d vibe with.

In fact, you will be invited to parties to meet these folks. All you have to do is show up, be yourself, and make new connections. ๐Ÿšซ No profiles, no swiping, and no more cheesy pick-up lines. All that stuff is just a game.

When you get an invite, weโ€™ll let you take a peek at the guest list. If you RSVP, youโ€™ll be added to a group chat to get know a bit about each other 24 hours before the event. This is the only moment youโ€™ll spend talking to people online, the rest will unfold at the event.

Crush Club events will take place in secret locations across Manhattan. This is not a speed dating event. This is a party โ€” full of interesting and like-minded folks, carefully curated based on interests, values, and community groups. Itโ€™s like meeting the tribe you didnโ€™t know you were a part of.

We believe in the law of attraction. If you focus on being your authentic self, then you will naturally attract the right kind of people around you. Donโ€™t they say it just happens when you arenโ€™t trying too hard? Just keep it ๐Ÿ’ฏ.

Online dating is more complicated than it needs to be. It has given us unrealistic expectations and more anxiety about finding โ€œthe oneโ€. Well, the Ancient Greeks had a more holistic definition of love, they identify 6 types:

  • ๐Ÿ’‹ ๐Ÿ‘… ๐Ÿ”ฅ Sexual passion (Eros)
  • ๐Ÿค— ๐Ÿค ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉ Deep friendship (Philia)
  • ๐Ÿ™ˆ ๐Ÿ‘ฏ โšฝ๏ธ Playful love (Ludus)
  • ๐ŸŒ ๐Ÿ˜‡ ๐ŸŒˆ Selfless love (Agape)
  • ๐Ÿ’— ๐Ÿ’ซ ๐Ÿ’ Longstanding love (Pragma)
  • ๐Ÿ’– ๐Ÿ’† ๐Ÿ‘‘ Self-Love (Philautia)

The more you enrich your life with these types of relationships, the more you will thrive. Crush Club is meant for you to find all 6 forms, but it begins with a crush โ€” that initial moment where you meet and feel a connection with someone. So you might make a new friend, find your business partner, or even your next date.

Itโ€™s time to approach online dating differently, are you up for it?

๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜ Click here to get started ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜

FAQs ๐Ÿค”

๐ŸŽ‰ When are these events happening?

ASAP! The more people sign up the better. Tell all your friends! Iโ€™m hoping to throw the first Crush Club event as early as next week April 14th. Please note that you might not be invited to the first event. It depends if we have enough for certain pools of people. So please, tell all your friends!

๐Ÿคทโ€ Who are you inviting to these parties?

Based on your survey results, I will try to curate guests lists based on shared values, interests, and communities. However, I will also make sure the guest list is diverse and inclusive!

๐Ÿ˜ณ Why are you asking so many questions?

We want to make sure we connect you people you get along with. Youโ€™re only going to do this once. No need to download an app. All you get are invites. It seems a lot but itโ€™s really minimal effort down the road. Pro-tip: Answer the survey honestly, that will improve your results!

๐Ÿ”ฎ How do you decide who is invited?

We match people based on shared values and passions. I also compare big 5 personality traits (the 20 questions). I am referencing psychology theory from Dr. Michal Kosinksiโ€™s research. His work indicates that humans prefer to bond with people who have similarities in these areas. I wonโ€™t bore you with the science but if you are curious, let me know so we can nerd out.

๐Ÿ™„ I donโ€™t do well in social gatherings

Every Crush Club event will have a host to help facilitate things. When you arrive at the event, there will be some icebreakers to make it easier for you to chat with folks. Donโ€™t worry, weโ€™ll be there to support you!

๐Ÿ™† Why are you doing this?

My name is Ruth, Iโ€™m doing my Masters in Interaction Design at SVA. For the past 7 months, Iโ€™ve been studying Online Dating for my thesis. Iโ€™ve analyzed this topic through the lens of design, psychology, neuroscience, economics, and behavioural science. After hearing my friends and everyone around complain about online dating, I thought Iโ€™d look for opportunities to improve human interaction and connection.

๐Ÿค“ I want to learn more about your work

I have documented some of my major lessons, insights, and other dating experiments on my blog: Tinder Lovinโ€™.

๐Ÿ™‹ Have more questions?

Feel free to reach out on Twitter: @ruthtupe

๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜ Click here to get started ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜ ๐Ÿ’˜

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6:30 PM18:30

Curated Table @ The Orphaned Starfish Gala


You're invited to join our curated table of men + women for a magical
evening of connection and charitable giving. 

Tickets: $500-$1,000
Email Christina directly with interest at:

The Orphaned Starfish Foundation (OSF) Gala raises funds for OSF programs for orphans and victims of abuse in 23 countries. It brings together over 500 supporters from the world of business and entertainment including corporate and media executives, bankers, lawyers, hoteliers, and hedge-fund managers. Seven children from their programs will be joining us at the gala this year too. They will have a child from Haiti, Panama, Costa Rica, Colombia, Chile, Mexico, and Brazil.

The Foundation creates change in the lives of over 9,500 orphans, victims of abuse and poverty worldwide by helping them develop the skills and tools to succeed - such as life training, computer basics, robotics, programming, web design and more. They help provide internships, scholarships, job training and job placement. To date, they have developed 46 computer training centers.

Together, we are the parents of the world! 

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7:00 PM19:00

Awaken Together Tomorrow

World-Renowned Healers, Alyson Charles and Ssanyu Birigwa's
Thursday, October 20th, 7:00-8:30p // Zen House: 165 Allen Street, NYC
Exclusive 50% off promo code for Underground Unattached Community: UUTribe1020

Underground Unattached is changing form. 

Rather than being just a "Curated Dating Experience," our focus is now community. You'll hear more once we're ready to share; however,
through the transition, we crave connection.

Join us tomorrow for a powerfully immersive & educational experience!

We're merging reiki, breathwork, and guided meditations to cultivate prosperity. We're going to meet our spirit animals!

You will leave with the tools to:

~ Let go,
~ Create pause and peace,
~ Energetically ground yourself and,
~ Cultivate gratitude to allow your truest gifts to shine.

Best of all, we'll do it together!

Experience limited to 50 humans. Space available for 14 more.
Use promo code: UUTribe1020.

Xo, Christina

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